If the word ‘underrated’ is looked for as a synonym, it would be ‘Father’ for godly-sure.
A man who sets his dreams and passions aside to raise a family never gets appreciated enough that he deserves.
From old-school essays to new-age podcasts, from social media posts to influencer videos on different platforms, it is for sure that Mothers win over Fathers, in any scenario. With the music that we listen to blogs that we read, there is so little limelight for Fathers.
Who knows why is it so but, what we all know is that there are so many lessons that the Man gives us without making it obvious. While a mother makes sure that her kid learns things, a father made his kids learn in a purely unconscious way.
Raising a toast to all the Fathers around the world, this article is just another pinch of addition to the content made for squirting Fathers.
Selflessness Is What A Father Never Shows & Yet Manages To Make You Understand
Everyone knows that a mother’s love is purely selfless and that’s true. But a father’s love stands equal on that parameter. He will never show selflessness and tries to be a little rude sometimes over so many things but his life is the purest yet divine example of being selfless. He must have duped many of his dreams, passions, and plans to provide the life that his family enjoys. He was also a young guy once who wanted to travel the world but he chose to fulfill requirements that are needed and enjoyed by his family. Killing self dreams is not easy and working every day to keep the home running is tiring too.
Managing Money Is A Lesson Too, But Managing Life Is Essential
No one thinks beyond money when it comes to management done by Fathers. Everybody says that Mothers manage a family. Your money management lessons will be given by your Father to you every now and then, but the essential lesson of life management is something that he magically instills in you without you knowing about it. You only came to know about what he taught you when you start having your bits of struggles and confusions in life. From handling the pressure at work to spending time with friends and making sure that family time remains the top priority, you can’t get to learn it from your Mother. Until you get married, you lead a sorted life full of fun. But when you get married or get a job, you start managing things and people and time. And that management is what you have learned from your Father without knowing it.
Being Tough Is One Thing, But Being A Flexible Personality Is A Life Skill
It is a myth that while mothers teach their children to be soft heart, fathers teach them to be tough to face the world. Both, soft-hearted and tough, are surely going to help you in life but Fathers do teach you to be a flexible personality without teaching you. Staying tough and full of attitude every time is not gonna help you lead a respectful life. There is a saying that a tree that moves and bends in a storm is the one that stays standing after the storm’. While you don’t see it throughout your life, your Father adjusts a lot in life and that only helps him establish respect in society. Being tough is misunderstood as being arrogant by many. Learn to be flexible and you will sail through life like a ‘Popeye The Sailor Man.’
Be Yourself & That’s It
Mothers know how to behave differently with different people and this is called trickery. But fathers teach their children to be just themselves with everyone and in every situation. You surely haven’t seen your father behaving extremely different with different people. Most of the time, he stays the person he is and behaves at his natural best. Being yourself helps you a lot in life as people start trusting you for what you are.
The man who teaches so many things without having your time surely deserves your respect, love, appreciation, and care. And one of the ways to do that is surprising him with lovely Fathers day gifts.
Every father is a lifestyle icon, you just need to notice calmly!